Beingtrustedisbetterthanbeingloved,Iheard.Itcertainlyfeltgreatwhen
DarrenaskedmetoopenthegymthatdayandlaterwhenIwasaskedtowritea
yelpreview.Ifeltapartofthecommunity!
1.SumiGaeshiandKesaGatami
Wetrainedsumigaeshi,thesweepagainstthesingle-legtakedown.Thiswaswhat
Vdidtomeafewweeksbackwithmyheadinthewrongposition!Myneckfeltit
whenheflippedmewhichmadeitsuchagoodlesson.Ilookeditupa...[
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ImissedPelt'svisitatthelocallibrarythissummerandafterwards,kept
hearingaboutherbook.NowthatI'vefinishedit,IwishIhadreaditearlier
andmettheauthor.
A30-ishscrewedupyoungmaninModestoCaliforniahadallbutgivenupwhenhis
aunt,whoraisedhim,handedhimabagofhisabsentjunkiemom'smemorabilia.A
fewphotosandagranduationringsparkedhisfantasyoftracingdownhis
likelyfather,nowaSea...[
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Inthenewgym,Ieasilyconversewithpeopleandbehavewithdignityand
respectandaccordingtomyrankandage.Everyonereciprocatesasanequaland
thesenseoffreedomfeltintoxicatingforme,animmigrantstrugglingforso
manyyearstoadapttoAmerica.
1.Compete?
RarelyinthefirstthreeyearsdidIfeelsoobsessedasthepastfewweeks
withjiu-jitsu.(BythetimeIreceivedthefirststripeonmybluebelt(month
33),IevenfeltIh...[
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1.
"DoyoumindifIskipitthistime?"BillaskedontheirwayhomeWednesday
afternoon.Hehadattendedthepreviousthreeback-to-schoolnightsashe
believedithisdutyasaparent.Eachtimeitwasareplayofastudent'sweek
intwohours,exhiliaratingforoneeveningandgonetillnextyear.
"No.Notatall"mutteredthe17-year-olddozingattheback.Sincethefallterm
started,hisdaykickedoffataround7:00...[
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Thestoryprogressesatasmartpaceandfillsthe600+pageswithsuspenseand
actions.Withnolong-windedrepetitivedescriptionofscenariesordozensof
rarewordsapagetolookupinthedictionary,itevolvesaroundcharactersof
generationsandlayerbylayerrevealshowsinsand,forsome,mistakesand
weaknesses,runtheircoursesandhowslowlybutfinelythewheelsofjusticegrind.
Aftersomebackground,theauthorsetatrapwithajob...[
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1.TheBlueBeltEffect
AsIsuspected,thebluebeltwasthehardestbeltasRicksonhimselfsaid
(Englishisnothisfirstlanguage.)
Inwhitebeltyoudonothavemuchidea.thereyougettocreateyour
reflexesandyourunderstandingofthegame.Tobecomebluebelt,you
needtoknowallofthesport.Youalreadyknowhowtoride,throttle,
armlocksandescapethegrip.Haveyoueverfeltthepressurefrom
opponents,canlastmoreintrainingandkn...[
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Wehadthepaperback月亮寶石,whenIwasachild.Ididn'tevenknowthe
originalEnglishtitle.IstillrememberedthenameofGaberielBetteredge,
oneofthenarrators,as伽百裏爾貝特裏奇,atransliterationthatmadenosense
inChineseexceptforinvokingafascinationtowardaremotealienworld.It
tookmeafewtriestofinishreading.
Aplover-egg-sizedIndiandiamond,dedicatedtoaHindudeity,waslootedbythe
Britishandpas...[
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1.TheSunnyvaleGym
Withthetraintrackstotheright,IonlyhavethreeorfourstopsonCentral
Expressandittakesmeabout25mintoebiketotheSunnyvalegym.Intotalit
shavesmorethan30minfrommycommutetoRedwoodCity.Inthisweather,I
don'tneedCaltrainatall.Theseeconomiesappealtomydefensivenatureand
makemeveryhappy.
MostguysleftfromtheRalphGracieMountainViewdaysarenowblackbelts.
Justinthe"M...[
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ThreeyearsoftraininghaslickedmeintoBJJshape:amuscularupperbodyand
athickneck.Myinnergrowthhasjustbeenasdramatic:at51,Icametoa
clearvisionformylifeandfeltthatIhadwhatittakestofollowit.From
personalexperience,ageingalonedoesnotautomaticallybestowmaturity.I
agreewithsomemasterswhosaidthatjiu-jitsuisgoingtohelpyounomatter
whatyoudo.No.Itakethatback.Ithelpsyoutobecomemoreofyourself.I
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TheMayGray,asthelocalweathermancalledthelastthreegloomydays,was
finallyoverandthemorningwascoolandclear.Afterspendingyesterday
walkingaroundtheneighborhoodandreadinginaStarbucks,Billhoppedonhis
trustyebikeandheadedsouthtoSunnyvale.
Trafficwaslight,thewindwasbehindhisback,andalongCentralExpresshe
pedalledataneasypace.In15minutes,heswitchedatMaryontoEvelynWand
soonarriveddownto...[
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