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Realized nearly my entire family is full of self-hating Asians : r/aznidentity

I have 5 aunts and 3/5 of them married a white guy. One of them divorced and married another white guy, so I have 4 white uncles to only 2 asian uncles.

Of their children combined, 6/9 of them married a non-asian. The remaining 3 are not married.

It took me a while to "realize" this because growing up it was just my normal life. It wasn't until one of my aunts divorced and married another white guy and all their children ended up marrying different races. One of my aunts even admitted she was looking for a white guy to marry.

You could argue we live in a multicultural society now and anyone can fall in love with anyone, and while true, I just feel like the odds are unusual here that like 70% of my family is not married to an asian. I think having parents that married non-asians is certainly influencing how their children perceive people and their openness or even motivation to find a non-asian partner.

While a part of me thinks it's cool that my family is so diverse, a part of me is sad that it seems like they aren't in connection with their heritage and how I can see their kids being raised without feeling a strong sense of connection or pride either. If you look at them you can't even tell they are asian too.