Don't follow your passion

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a16z co-founder Ben Horowitz: “Don’t follow your passion” Ben gives this advice to the Columbia University class of 2015: “Don’t follow your passion. Now I know you’re probably thinking: ‘That’s a really dumb idea because if you poll 1,000 people who are successful, they’ll all say they love what they do. And so the broad conclusion of the world is that if you do what you love, then you’ll be successful.’ But we’re engineers, so we know that might be true. It also might be the case that if you’re successful, you love what you do — you just love being successful, everybody loves you, it’s awesome. So which one is it?” He continues: “The first tricky thing about passions is they’re hard to prioritize. Are you more passionate about math or engineering? Are you more passionate about history or literature? Are you more passionate about video games or K-pop? These are tough decisions. How do you even know? On the other hand, what are you good at? Are you better at math or writing? That’s a much easier thing to figure out. The second thing that’s tricky if you’re going forward in time with this ‘follow your passion’ idea is that what you’re passionate about at 21 is not necessarily what you’re going to be passionate about at 40. Now this is true for boyfriends, as well as career choices. The third issue with following your passion is that you’re not necessarily good at your passion. Has anybody ever watched American Idol? So you know what I’m talking about. Just because you love singing doesn’t mean you should be a professional singer. And then finally, and most importantly, following your passion is a very ‘me-centered’ view of the world. And when you go through life, what you’ll find is that what you take out of the world — money, cars, stuff, accolades — is much less important than what you put into the world. And so my recommendation would be to follow your contribution. Find the thing that you’re great at, put that into the world, contribute to others, help the world be better. That is the thing to follow.” Video source: (2015)
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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也有道理啊~ 那俺可以很自豪地說俺的passion 也正是俺的contribution 所在~ -linda2- 給 linda2 發送悄悄話 linda2 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 16:36:54

是,很大層麵上就是視角的差別,其實說的是一回事 -兩女寶媽- 給 兩女寶媽 發送悄悄話 兩女寶媽 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:06:15

是的是的,因為從小開始就有正反饋了,喜歡的,就會使勁,就會有回報/貢獻,然後會更喜歡 ~ -linda2- 給 linda2 發送悄悄話 linda2 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:15:44

類似的問題,找個愛你的人,還是你愛的人結婚? -閑聊一二- 給 閑聊一二 發送悄悄話 (69 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:01:12

感覺對於大眾,愛自己的也就是自己愛的,畢竟選擇其實不是很多 -兩女寶媽- 給 兩女寶媽 發送悄悄話 兩女寶媽 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:07:31

嘿嘿,跟主貼裏的幹擅長的會有拍杏,不是也很像嘛 :) -閑聊一二- 給 閑聊一二 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:11:16

互相愛吧,否則太沒意思了。 -amiyumi- 給 amiyumi 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:29:38

那樣的幸運者是少數吧?大多數情況,至少有一方是不反感能接受湊合 -閑聊一二- 給 閑聊一二 發送悄悄話 (46 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:39:22

這個問題俺就比較慘了,好在還能湊合,也不指望啥了 ~ -linda2- 給 linda2 發送悄悄話 linda2 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:43:04

不是說:找一個你愛的談戀愛,然後找一個愛你的結婚。最好 -zhudi- 給 zhudi 發送悄悄話 zhudi 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 18:34:54

畢業典禮雞湯網上很多。熱情雞湯,奉獻雞湯,Jensen近年也演講很多,挫折雞湯 -oryzivore- 給 oryzivore 發送悄悄話 (72 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:07:49

Passion 這個東西真的有點玄學,但找到自己擅長的事情做,一般成功率應該會更高一些 -好風景- 給 好風景 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 03/01/2025 postreply 03:46:52

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