凡事都不能走極端

過度雞娃固然不好，但放任孩子不管也絕對不是解決問題的方法。我最近看了一本書"The Collapse of Parenting"，作者的一些觀點我還是認同的。不過作者給家長提的一個要求/建議我覺得挺有挑戰："You must help your child to find meaning in life that is not about their latest accomlishment, or how they look, or how many friends they have, but about who your child is, their truest self".

What is my truest self?