這個老印女馬上要去動手術，所以她就說起：我的這個cousin在這個醫院做這個科醫生，那個uncle在那個醫院做那個科醫生，其它親戚又在某某城run某某hospital.
我說：你還真沒開玩笑，你家真不缺醫生。
她說：Yes. U know we Indians. We do engineering, medicine or law. Not cut out for much else.
我笑死了，人家說這麽實在的話。我回答她：Lol. There is a lot of talk about you guys being models for the Chinese Americans. We could use some of those qualities.
她也蠻謙虛的。Lol! We think u guys are the best. We tell our kids, follow your work ethic. Much to learn.
然後說到social savvy和communication skills, 她說：We speak English from the start. We are also very lucky to be able to open up. Our social aspect is a big part of our culture. We feel like we are living in a gilded golden age in the US.
我們又扯了些其它話題，她說：你們很會save $$. We are yet to learn that skill.
她是很真誠的一個人，我很感謝她真誠的話，不管是否正確。在一般社交的圈子裏，我是不太會和別人說關於種族的話的，更不會做種族間的比較。不過不承認同一種族之間的相關性是一種不誠實，另外，不同種族之間的差別再否認也沒用。
