看玫瑰的時候想起最近看的美劇人生複本。女主的複本有句話特精辟。

她說our lives are marked by the choices that we make. 所以去看看if the grass really is greener 也沒錯。不過男主的複本也給了一句話， relationships are negatiations, whoever speaks first, kind of loses. ，如此類推男女之間right level of aloof 還是應該保持。