您對宗教的理解有誤:不是逆來順受,而是心知肚明地調解自己內心的煩惱。
給您推薦一本非宗教的好書,它改變了我的人生,也希望它也能給您帶來真正的智慧和慈悲:
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
by Stephen R. Covey
http://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highly-Effective-People-Powerful/dp/1451639619