You are wrong about why Chinese women want to stay here.

Most of the Chinese women I know of have a job here, just like their hu*****ands. For each family, they earn their living through hard work here, not through funneling easy  money from china. I think for many I know, they don't have an safety net available in China, they are the safety net for their relatives in China.

I hear you and it is tough to hold a job in US. But no pain no gain, and what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.