我沒有小孩，但我覺得我有一點

可比性。今年BF辭職，養了他一年，他的mortgage,insurance,一切開銷，也有五萬了。我也是工薪，什麽財都沒發過。

但我絕對不苦自己，就活一輩子，我對自己不好還指望誰對我好呀。隻要max了401K，on track for retirement plan, 剩下錢都花自己身上。

about 400/mo for working out, gym, trainer etc

about 300 for facial, massage, mani/pedi

variable amount for clothing purchases, depends on the month.

The way I see it, I live once, I'm young once, if I don't money on myself now, I won't be able to enjoy the money when I get old, so what's the point? This is living right?