人生的陷阱很多的。想平安，幸福，富裕的走過來並不容易的

看來這成了你的咒了。我也沒什麽智慧的。就是覺得以後凡事要先為自己考慮。另外，你那女兒大了，恐怕會飛的...所以，你還是應該花點心思想想自己的以後生活，不再象你從前那樣匆忙決定（或許是命運的驅使）。

maybe start looking for a partner again. I know it might be hard at this moment but you might not want the opportunity passing by either.

with your intelligence you might be able to secure you and your daughter's future financially. this should be your focus.

last, being an happy person regardless what happened. pls do not live in the past. do not live some other one's life. If i were you, I just kick all that stuff out completely, nothing stays, absolutely nothing, never ever a thought about it. You have the freedom to have a new life. Use the power and have a great life journey from now. good luck