“陳升比較土，沒處理好。應當給以個大大方方的擁抱。”agree on this

He and everyone else made too much of a big deal on this, 太土了。

I am not sure if people made too much of a big deal of her feeling toward him as well, I believe it's overly exagerated. She may had feeling once towards him, and she may had hard time finding her true love for many years, these two things may be unrelated.