Men and women think so differently. Men normally think they are the providers. I once met a Chinese pilot who was very handsome in SH airport. When I tried so hard to manager my very heavy luggage in the escalator, he helped me like a friend. Not because I was pretty, not because he wanted to know me more, just because he was such a good man in the society and he thought a man should help in that kind of circumstance. His image embedded in my mind forever. I guess you love him because he is so capable to help people and he is not selfish. It’s not hard for you to figure out his nature to help other women. Is he generous as a provider or does he over act often?
You love him does not mean you own him. He has to play his many roles in the society.