回複：不能說社會對自己有壓迫。。

example --

one woman. 40. looking for a 35 year old man, handsome, tall, you say she needs to " 有自知之明".
why?

one man, 40. looking for woman. what age he would look into? tell me. if he says in between a 49, 42 and 35 year old women, he would chose the 35 year old. do you think he is unusual? or he'd rather choose a 30 or 24 year old?

another example--in China, if you are a woman, you look for a job. will the ad say, "under 35 years old".
is there such thing in US?is there such thing for men?

in this forum, once a while, you see man saying, they miss the time they can get a virgin.

did you ever see this comment from a woman? ever?

you would say, OK, these are just natural, they are all reasonable.

really? think about 100 years ago, what was reasonable for women, and how ridiculous they seem now.

too much to say. not sure if you would even think about it. but, i put it here for others to see, to think about.