you won't have the exact feeling because you are a man
and i wrote about a woman's experiance.
agree with the last sentence you wrote.
some people feel, remember and write with words.
others just experiance. they do not remember that many details and they do not want to write about it.
it has nothing to do with what you are thinking during the actual process. agree? nobody will think that much when they enjoy it. otherwise where are the amazing feeling come from.