不是那麽簡單的。。。

Hugh Grant有那麽漂亮的女朋友，還去找了個醜小姐呢。。。
一般的人是會那樣解釋，TAKE IT PERSONALLY也是時分自然的。。。but the other party usually have deeper reason behind his action, and usually related to his early life, not necessary his spouse. Understanding that is important weather LZ decide to stay with his hu*****and or start all over. Forgiveness will bring her peace either way.

Certainly weather to work out or start over, This is a very important and personaly decision, and I believe no matter how she decide to move forward, we will all support her.