回複：他第三次要求來看我

This is a dilema. On one side, life is short. You should follow your heart. On the other side, life is also about responsibility. Both of you have family and committment to the other party. I would recommend you be very careful. Exam your feelings toward him. Is this love? Or you just feel lonely and need somebody when your hu*****and is not around. If you need to leave your hu*****and, leave him because you don't love him anymore. Don't leave him for another man. You will regret one day. It is hard to separate these two things. But you have to. Good luck.