是不是該放棄呢？

謝謝之前版主及各位xdjm的關心。我現在已經回到了自己的所在地。昨天晚上給她發了個郵件，一是告訴她我平安到達，二是感謝她的盛情款待。我說過我這個人沒什麽複雜的情感經曆，想事情有時候也過於簡單，所以沒能把握好機會。下麵的一段話是她的回信，我想聽聽你們的意見（不知道這樣做是否妥當，我在心裏先說聲報歉了）：It is not because of some words you said or something you have been done. You have been yourself and you did well. However, I did not find myself attracted to you as an individual. After meeting you in person, I found you are not a person that I would spend the rest of my life with. Please do not take this personal. It has nothing to reflect on your characteristic. I prefer not to develop a relationship with you; but to remain available, looking for my other half. As a mature woman, I am very clear what I want and what I don't.

I appreciate your attention. But I ask you to respect my wish.我說過我不是一個死纏爛打的人，盡管我很喜歡她。我現在在猶豫該怎麽辦。過階段她會有個畢業典禮，我不知道是不是應該去參加。