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Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by Dr. John Gottman

以下是這本書的介紹：

...This book guide you through a series of self-test designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.

You'll also learn:

More sex doesn't necessary improve a marriage;
Frequent arguing will not lead to divorce;
Financial problems do not always spell trouble in a relationship;
Wives who make sour facial expressions wen their hu*****ands talk are likely to be separated within four years;
There is a reason hu*****ands withraw from arguments---and there's a way around it.

Dr. Gottman tell you how to recognize attitudes that doom a marriage---contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling---and provides practical exercises, quizzes, tips,and techniques that will help you understand and help make the most of your relationship...
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What help me most is a realization that my hu*****and and I naturally prefer different ways to solve problems. 知己知彼。:)

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• 看來應該讀讀。不過看來男人怕吵架，咱以後不吵了， -fpxjz- ♀ (30 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 11:47:35

• 看了你就知道了，吵架是藝術，控製得好是很romantic的事。嗬嗬。 -好看？- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 11:50:29

• 4d!! 打架更 romantic. 搞土木的 = 又土又木 :D -aqua_kid- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 12:05:24

• 你還是不要吵的好。：） -好看？- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 12:13:24

• 其實男女之間的矛盾是生理性的，與生俱來 -xix- ♂ (316 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 11:57:19

• 哈，有道理。 -好看？- ♀ (119 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 12:18:11

• 我有嗎？ -xix- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 12:21:41

• 哦，沒有哇 -好看？- ♀ (61 bytes) () 03/10/2009 postreply 12:32:25