謝謝大家對我們的祝福。。這個美國老太太真把我氣到了。你們說我這樣回她對不對？

我們在領養狗狗的時候，這個美國老太太曾是它的shelter foster，因為之前狗狗有bladder stone，前主人把它送到shelter去了，shelter 給它手術完就讓這個老太太在家養了幾星期。老公在領養時沒有表現出很大的熱忱。就對女兒說，你們領狗要想清楚，因為你們領養，你們就要負起責任，要遛它，喂它，清理它。老太太就很擔心我老公會對狗狗不好。我們領回狗狗後不停發郵件。開始我還因為她對狗狗的感情而理解她，耐心回答她郵件。有一次她就說，因為是她foster過的狗狗，所以她覺得她有權利要求到我家來visit，我怎麽聽著象視察一般。我老公有一點嫌疑犯的感覺。今天老太太又來一個郵件。這次太露骨了，居然大咧咧就問“how's your hu*****and's taking with C (the dog)？”還列舉一大堆made in china 的狗食，沒有根據地號稱是毒死了寵物的罪魁禍首。我回了她一個郵件，覺得已經給了她足夠的尊重，相反她沒有尊重我們，反而因我們的尊重覺得自己很suerior。我老公說不要告訴她手術，說這樣心腸的老太，沒準會告我們。我說怕什麽，狗狗這種病是generic的，又不是虐待出來的。我們問心無愧。

我的答複：
XXX：

C (dog) is in hospital now. She had back problems. She will be discharged tomorrow. After that, there is going to be 8 weeks crate rest, physical therapy, and lots of vet follow up visits. So I think it's not good time to arrange a visit for you.

Please do not doubt my hu*****and's love to C. Your question has offended me! When C was diagnosted with disc problem, We could had the option to return her to the shelter. But my hu*****and was the one who decided to pay the hefty specailist bills to give her the best treatment. When I searched on line, I saw lots of Americans backed out from saving their pets, when they learned about the giant medical bills. They chose to put down their pets instead. We are not a wealthy family. My hu*****and is the only financial resouce for our family. He is a cheap guy who would bring left overs to work as lunch. But he did not hesitate to break our pockets to save C.

I do understand and respect your concerns and deep feeling to C. But can you please respect our feelings and privacy as well?

Besides, we have already changed the name for C.

Thank you,
princessonthepea