It is really a general rule to stay clear of those, son of widow

They don't typically have a healthy, normal mother-son relationship. 跟有心理健康有問題（那種成長過程中帶來的心理不健康）ｏｒ親情關係不健康有畸形的人建立親密關係是很可怕的，會把自己的ｌｉｆｅ也screw up. 找到的不會是幸福。