小既看過《call me by your name》嗎？其中有段話說的特別好，共勉

“I may have come close, but I never had what you had. Something always held me back or stood in the way. How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us can’t help but live as though we’ve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But there’s only one, and before you 

know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it.” - Novel 《Call me by your name》

 

 

我們隻能擁有一次我們的身體和心靈。但很多人都期望盡可能的多擁有，一個是想象的生活，一個是現實的版本，還有的就是介於兩者之間.....但無論怎樣選擇，我們終究隻有一個人生，而在我們明白這個道理之前，我們的心就已經蒼老了。至於身體，總有一天沒有人願意再看到，沒有人願意再靠近。現在我感到遺憾，我不羨慕痛苦本身，但我羨慕你會痛。