“兒子都像爸爸,你看謝霆鋒就是另一個謝賢,我不想(讓)我的兒子(以後)是(跟)謝霆鋒(一樣)……我想(讓)我兒子(能)是他自己。” "是他自己" is Chinese translation of "be himself". But that's not what it really means.