小薇我試著理解為

保留口德給予對方無限希望。我仍然害怕自己忘了這一點而導致成事不足敗事有餘。正如我老爹當年很裝蒜地對我說，我現在學他很裝蒜地重複，某種意義上，根本顏麵這種東西不是與生俱來就平等的。Reserving judgments is a matter of infinite hope. I am still a little afraid of missing something if I forget that, as my father snobbishly suggested, and I snobbishly repeat, a sense of the fundamental decencies is parcelled out unequally at birth.