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On Sat, Dec 1, 2018 at 9:08 AM LHS > wrote:
I sent a note just asking her to txt when she was up cuz I had something brief to say to her.
Didn’t want to push cuz she takes her 930 presentation here very seriously.
Better after her talk.
Am I thanking her or being sorry re my being married. I think the former.

On Dec 1, 2018, at 9:11 AM, J  wrote:
thanking her for fortitude in dealing with what has obvioulsy been a tough situation. and acknowlegin both how difficult it has been coupled with your mate insensitivty. and
apologizing for not fully recogbnizing how difficult it has been