I was just trying to be practical. 95% of

all lawsuits in this country get settled. Why waste money on lawyers (I am one) when you can solve it another way? 不戰而屈人之兵。。。。。

如果這事情一定要鬧大，也一定會有後果，法庭上並非所有的人都站的注腳。孩子會是一個fair game, especially one who is not a boy scott.