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1. first, he has to file a paper in the court and use legal process service to server you. he cannot give you the paper by himself or mail to you.
2. After you get the paper, you have about 30 days to response. the deadline is on th epaper. you MUST response.
3. The court will set up a hearing determining temporary child custody and support. You can request a emergency hearing if you want to. you should get child custody and half his income, plus 50% og child support from him.
4. a ong time waiting priod, can be a year or two
5. trial
6. judge order.

your question:

1. 最終離的時間是法庭宣判的時間開始算。about two year later.