I haven't seen any man who refuses to satisfy

wife's desire to be a mom. that is rape of woman's right. you need to figure out the real reasons why he does not want kids. Common reasons are;
(1) physical reasons which you ruled out
(2) he does not plan to live with you for future long term.
(3) there are significant negative impact on his fortunes if any.
(4) unusually selfish.
(5) had related nightmaires in his previours relationships.
(6) had fears that quaility of kid is far behind his expectation due to possible genetic problems or similar.