if you want your kid psychologically grows up normally,
if you want your kid psychologically grows up nomrally, do not deprive the right of love from my wife to your child. life is short. you deserve a life, or probalbly even a better life for your kid, if you elect to leave hu*****and-abusing wife. you two may just not destined for each other. she may be a fine person to any other person. let it be. most important is your child. that's why you work for and future lies on.