your fault if 我的左前方癟了，她的右後車門癟了

You might have a chance if she hit your car in the rear end. But from what you said, it looks to me that you hit her, not she hit you.

You will be lucky if she doesn't sue you.

老黑 are bad. So be extra careful next time.

Take all information at the spot. Including name, driver license number, address, birth date, insurance, insurance phone #, insurance policy #, car make and model, damage, weather condition, wind, rain, remember surroundings, secure witnesses if you can, wait for the police even in this case you would have most definitely get a ticket.

Don't ever think the other party will just be "nice" to you and forgo the damage. They will try to squeez every penny out of you if they can. It's happening too often on this board.