對方隻能說是蠻橫不講理?

如果她是白人, 對方會這樣 "overreacted immediately" 嗎?!
別說不是種族歧視. 在機場,海關,以至職場晉升,教授招生,到租房子,....那種態度上的微妙, 不用我說了吧.

當然, 這個案子要采取策略. 同意你說的: "種族牌是一把雙刃劍，可以幫助您但是也可能傷害您".

"Is America still an opportunity land if those who came here earlier always laught at those who came here late; Is America still an opportunity land if only those Whites being regard as REAL AMERICANS?..."

--- The above is from one audiance in the call-in Radio show at "Talk with Dr Laura" at one Radio Station from southern california.

亞裔在美國總是有那種"尷尬"的感覺.:::::::::