do not support your divorcing idea

I have been divorced, but the reason is between my ex and I. Your case is NOT the reason for divorce; Your effort is worth for your son and your's sake.
Follow some basit rule:
1. never let the parent on 2 sides come at the same time;
2. Treat both parents eaqually, forgive them as much as you can. Also, keep them shorter here.
3. talk to your hu*****and and reach the above agreement;