I'm sure it's that wife hersel
Too much lies in her story, she think everybody is idiot, it's true many idiot here include herself, she thought nobody knew she used different ID to post. Anyway, this woman is not honest.
If you want to seek something, some help, some support, you need to tell truth, especially in ur case, you need to tell detail, not just put ur personal opinion into the story, I need to see the fact.