可憐的人兒, you are lucky

可憐的人兒, you are lucky to be in Canada.

If you are in US, and in Virigina as you said, according to this guideline:
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/virginia/

you need to pay your wife $1014/month for child support if your wife doesn't have a job. You may also need to pay alimony to your wife since she doesn't have a job.

Good luck for your future life!!! Hahahaa....