She wanted your husband tell you

The lady wanted your husband tell you he never love you before, and want to divorce you. This is my guess. Your husband loves the lady, otherwise, she cannot call you and yell at you in front of him. Let your husband go and show your braveness to them. I know it is painful. The divorce is not your fault. I divorced my exhusband because of a similar situation like you. I know how you feel and what you want to do for your kids. Right now, divorce is the only thing you can do to have respect from your kids and your exhusband. In terms of what will happen about their relationship of your husband with the lady, you don't need think about it. It is not your business. If the lady call again, record her voice, present to the court and ask for court order that she cannot call you and your family, also she cannot contact with your kids. Hope you realize the main point is that your husband wants to divorce and loves the lady. No matter who she is, he loves her. He feels it is the love. Respect yourself and move on to your new life.