清官難斷家務事。一個人在這裏說的很難是故事的全部。

有關婚姻，下麵這幾句話好像還是有道理的:

Marriage is brutal on selfish people.

Marriage is not about independents.

marriage is about interdependence.

If you want to be independent, stay single.

Independence and selfishness destroys a marriage interdependence.