Depends on your purpose

來源: 2013-03-16 14:22:21 [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀:

As long as your purpose is not to punish the other side, it shouldn't be difficult. Start from common ground. Remember, he is father of your children, and he is no less entitled to a new (and presumably good) life than you. You will get more if you base your discussion on these assumptions. Warmth, not the coldness, that melts the ice. I wish you good luck.