How can I protect myself and get the normal interaction with my

I live in California, I am still in marriage with my hu*****and, we live in the same household, but whenever we are in cold war ( at least 250 days of 365 days a year), he limited my interaction with my daughter, my daughter is only 4 year old, in this cold war, my daughter doesn't even dare to let me hold her or kiss her. All these started last year, started from he limited my parents' access to my daughter, at that time, i just couldn't take my daughter out for any activity, these days, it becomes almost daily life, when my daughter wanted to get closer to me at bed, he will hold her back vigorously. One month ago, my daughter and I cried sadly for missing each other so much. Originally i argued with him, but i found that hurt my daughter more, but even in these days, i still feel the shade is growing in my daughter's heart. I love my daughter so much.

I don't know what I need to do to protect my daughter and myself. Both he and I work full time, his job is closer to home. I need to cook for him everyday after work and I really don't have much time with my daughter except after work. Anyone can help me? Thank you so much.