sorry for misleading. I mean

if my mom left, my mother in law takes care of baby. It is almost like we are living together with my mother in law. After all the drama and arguments, I can't imagine that. When she is not happy for any reason, she bully me.

Now we only bring baby to her place for a few hours per week. It is too suffering for me to spend more time with her.

Now, I mentally dislike her.