sorry I can't type chinese now.
My mother in law is very high mainteinance financially and emotionally. My hu*****and spends 2k+ on her every month including mortagage, utilities, her cell phone, grocery, etc. She still uses my hu*****and's credit card for $200 per month. She has $1200/month from social security, but she spends it all for her own spending. I wonder what she spends for since all her bills are already covered by my hu*****and.
And, she emotionally needs my hu*****and so much. She calls my hu*****and 3am every now and then. She requests frequent visit from my hu*****and and my daughter. She cries over the phone sometimes.
My hu*****and asks me to be a nice and forgiving person, because his mother is old, uneducated, and may have depression. But I knew her true nature. She is just very selfish and irresponsible person. She claims that she loves her son very much, but my hu*****and explained that her current big house is too expensive to afford, and she still refuses to move to a smaller house. If she is paying her bill by herself, I have no right to judge her. But she is causing financial issue for us. And she has no appreciation. She is like " I raised my son, so I have right to spend his money."
My hu*****and is not standing up for us. He doesn't want to say no to his mom's unreasonable request. That is why I am disppointed with this relationship.
My mom is like most parents, who are nice, considerate, and financially well planned. On the other hand, my mother in law has lived in U.S. for 30+ years, but she has no house, no saving, and she still owe $100k to one close family friend, and my hu*****and is the one supposed to return that money.