sorry, don't agree with you.
My PD is 2005/8, but I waited for my wife to come back to file 485 and will send my application tomorrow. I'm still happy for everyone, after such long time waiting, I fully understand the anxiety of XDJM. We're all foreigners here even after getting GC(sorry to offend those who strived to melt into "mainstream"), think it this way: most of the time, other people's suffering won't make you better off, think what you already luckily got (a place in the 485 queue, EAD, AP, a somewhat relieved mood), don't always think about what other people "shouldn't" get.
In short, cheer up! Good luck to everyone!