回複：I can't bring little kid to go, he is a premature!!

just make the decision by yourself. you should discuss this with your wife. others do not know the exactly situation in your family. but remmber you are not only your mother's son, but also the father of your kids. you should care about them too. I think the little kid is too small to go back the china. About your older son, you should respect his decision too. Not orce the kids to do anything he does not like to do.