Well, thank you for you input.at least this is some input.

"If you are really good, try EB1." If I can file EB1, why I am crying for my EB3 here.
"If you are just a normal person, try enjoy your life." That's what I am trying to do. but with a job you don't really like but you have to keep it, it's kind of hard.

"If you still feel depressed, watch some porn. It will definitely help you to make up your mind to go back to China."

I don't quite get how porn can help me make my mind to go back to China. That's one thing I was thinking make me don't want to go back to China.