I admire your courage, really. This type of people are
not only in Germany, believe it or not. I work in the US and one day there is a Canadian coming to our office. He is amazed that I talked with him in French. they thought i was from Vietnam, which is French colony before. He said to me that i must be from a rich and high class family ( some kind of noble family in China by his guessing). I asked him why, he told me that because most of CHInese women do not get good education due to the sex discrimination there. What can i say? You can not believe he is sales and sales supposed to be more open mind and have a global view.
I understand your feeling. Proberbaly you are still young. I avoid this type of talk now since it is too emotional and i am like you that i am easy to get mad or hurt in this case.
But, I see HOPE from you and this same type of people like you.
Zan Yi Ge!