太同意了:

"在國外生活恰恰就是沒人搭理你，事實上他們自己也是誰也不搭理誰，除了你的家人和僅有的朋友"

this is the result of that so-called privacy. this is why so many people are depressed.
human being are social animals. We are more like wolfs, running in packs, not like cats.