the following words may be tough:

來源: 於 2015-07-16 11:02:30 [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀：次

"可我實在不擅長主動開口說這些事"

just learn how to do it. It is not an excuse for you and ur family, ur children. if u just refuse to learn, it is ur own problem; u deserve it then.