該去就去，大家都是逢場作戲，

這不是什麽人品問題。Nobody likes kissing ass, its a just a way to move up or sometimes just simply to keep you current job. Being a 40+ adult, you should have already known very well that 成人不自在。if eventually you decide not to go, make sure you come back to this post if you get laid off earlier than your peers.