"千萬別多讀書，越讀越傻" -- Totally agree !

Universal Law #0:
"遇到瓶頸 is a good sign "
Universal Law #1:
 "千萬別多讀書，越讀越傻"
    Universal Law #1.1:
    "世界上最沒用的就是上很多年學了"
Universal Law #2:
"早插秧，早打穀，早生兒子，早享福！"
    Universal Law #2.1:
    "女的差不多就行了，操心太多老得快"

My suggestion:
You may consider jump out of the current business circle/env for searchng the right man. Because there is no right men in the business circles/envs where there are full of pigs & trash men all around;
I bet you'll find the right man in 不遠的地方 but totally different circle/env. probably amount technical guys.

This suggestion is based on several cases I know in recent 30 years. The ladies/cases were all similar to yours and They are all happy wives & moms now.