回複：回複：如果你找不到同樣pay的，那就是說你就隻值那麽多。

Well, I guess the point I am realizing is that things like relationships, a shared history / cultural heritage, political POV etc. are potentially worth a lot of $$. Also, I am realizing being Chinese / foreign-born is a significant negative-value attribute, even in my current situation which is quite technical.