回複：快了，快了，let's hope。

you do not need hope or pray for it.

simply immigrate and live in north european countries such as Norway, Sweden, Finland, and Demark.

i lived in one of them, and visited other two.

what i found are:

1) men can be less stressful in these countries

2) women have more responsibilities and burdens actually.

there are always trade-offs:)