這封經理的信有“曖昧”的意思嗎？

這兩天和老公冷戰，原因就是他看到經理的這封信（見下），說什麽經理對我別有用心，最好換組或換工作。我和這位經理以及組裏其他成員相出不錯，不想換，結果他就說我喜歡這種曖昧的感覺。簡直氣死我了! 今天我就把這封信拿處來給職場的高手們看一看，這封信到底有沒有問題？

起因是：我寫email向經理請三個星期的假。背景：我和這個新經理才共事三個月，沒有什麽私交。見麵就是開會談工作。好像沒私下裏談過別的閑話。可能間麵寒暄過兩句周末去哪裏玩過之類的，最多兩三次而已。可老公說問題就在這兒，如果不熟習，為什麽還用什麽 cross fingers和什麽think about you之類的話。難到這些詞異性同事之間不能用嗎？

還有前不久，我剛剛被這個經理額外獎勵了兩千刀，當時老公挺高興的，可看了這封信就翻臉了，說什麽這是經理在利誘我。我前一段可真是起早摸黑地幹活。這道好，成了用色象換的了。#@%$@%這女銀幹點工作怎麽事兒就這麽多呢? _:mad: _:mad:

請職場有經驗的人看看，是老公小心眼，還是我神經大條（好像是台灣話，找不著更好的形容詞了，先借用一下。）多謝！


X.

I completely understand and will support whatever you decide to do. First, I'm sorry to hear your mom has a tumor. I hope it's not too serious. I'll keep my fingers crossed that the procedure goes smoothly, the doctors are able to completely remove it, and she makes a full recovery. Second, I can see your hesitation traveling with two small children and caring for them and your mom. However, if you are able to go, I think your mom will appreciate having you there for support. I'm an only child myself, so I know the special relationship you have with your family.

This is certainly plenty of advance notice, so we can make arrangements to cover your assignments while you're away. Don't let work factor into your decision making process at all. We'll be fine. The most important thing is for you to do what's best for your mom and your family. Just confirm with me what you decide, and let me know if you need anything else. I'll be thinking about you and your family. Thanks, X.

Best regards,

D.